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No New Posts Professional Consultation with Author Susan Peabody

Spend some personal time with Susan discussing your love addiction.

7 17 If You Have No Money
by Susan Peabody
Jul 26, 2015 14:40:52 GMT -8
No New Posts Welcome

Welcome statement and board rules.

12 26 Projection
by moonlitvein
Jul 27, 2015 20:04:16 GMT -8
No New Posts Are You a Love Addict?

Article to read and test to take to see if you are a love addict.

8 98 Are you a Love Addict- 40 questions
by Susan Peabody
Jun 29, 2015 10:30:09 GMT -8
No New Posts Types of Love Addicts - 1 Viewing

The different types of love addicts.

Sub-boards: An Overview, Obsessed Love Addicts, Codependent Love Addicts, Torchbearers, Ambivalent Love Addicts, Relationship Addicts, Romance Addicts

327 3,162 Discussion of the Torchbearer
by LovelyJune
Aug 3, 2015 16:27:37 GMT -8
No New Posts NEWCOMERS: Introduce Yourself - 1 Viewing

Tell us about yourself and ask questions.

939 8,281 addicted to a narcissist and want it to stop
by LovelyJune
Aug 3, 2015 15:08:23 GMT -8
No New Posts Withdrawal: Educational Insights

This thread is for reading about withdrawal. To discuss this subject go to the thread "Withdrawal Posting Only."

34 897 12 No Contact Rules
by Susan Peabody
Jul 29, 2015 13:25:19 GMT -8
No New Posts Withdrawal: Posting Only

This is for Posting Only

769 7,544 One week without cyber stalking!
by vivi
Aug 2, 2015 12:11:44 GMT -8
No New Posts Are You Suicidal?

What to do if you are feeling suicidal.

75 877 Not suicidal but feeling lack of bliss
by leahb
Jul 25, 2015 22:38:32 GMT -8
No New Posts Recovery Topics

For educational purposes only.

101 996 Imago Concept
by Susan Peabody
Aug 3, 2015 10:00:27 GMT -8
No New Posts Recovery Talk

Personal discussions about your recovery.

452 4,159 Working Through Feelings in Recovery
by abetterlife
Aug 3, 2015 7:37:38 GMT -8
No New Posts Recovery Workbook for Love Addicts and Love Avoidants

Answering Susan's workbook questions in electronic form. Share your recovery with other love addicts. Wonderful way to mentor and share with others.

6 91 The Female Love Avoidant
by Susan Peabody
Aug 3, 2015 11:10:21 GMT -8
No New Posts I am not in recovery yet but I need to vent.

For the member who is not yet in recovery. Pour your heart out. The password is venting. Many of our members only focus on recovery and so this will give you some privacy. Staff and some members will view you post and try to help.

153 1,363
No New Posts Old Timers Checking In (NEW)

Recovery After the Crisis in Over

38 229 Returning after awhile
by aurelian
Jul 19, 2015 12:12:00 GMT -8
No New Posts Self Esteem

Self-esteem is an important part of recovery, probably the most important part.

206 1,751 Understanding My Self Esteem
by moonlitvein
Aug 1, 2015 10:00:53 GMT -8
No New Posts Therapy & Medication

Various kinds of professional help.

63 541 My Last therapy session was all about my relationship :(
by vivi
Aug 1, 2015 0:58:17 GMT -8
No New Posts Triangles: The Agony & Ecstasy

Triangles must end: Share your experience and recovery with triangles.

12 304 "Ministering" To Those In Triangles/Affairs...
by havefaith
May 14, 2015 6:06:14 GMT -8
No New Posts Emotions - 1 Viewing

Discuss anger, depression, anxiety and anything else you feel.

Sub-boards: READ me first, Optimism, Happiness & Joy, Cynicism/Pessimism, Sadness & Depression, Shame/Guilt, Fear and Anxiety, Anger, Rage and Resentments, Grief, Jealousy, Ambivalence, Loneliness, Longing & Attachment Hunger, Self-Pity, Boredom, Confusion, Sympathy & Empathy, Serenity, Gratitude Lists

347 2,624 ABetterLife's Gratitude List
by leahb
Aug 2, 2015 13:47:57 GMT -8
No New Posts Positive Thinking

Positive thinking can change your life.

33 293 Getting Rid of The Black Holes
by moonlitvein
Jul 29, 2015 22:20:11 GMT -8
No New Posts Inner Child Corner - 1 Viewing

Transactional Analysis for Love Addicts

86 629 My happiness together with my Inner Children
by vivi
Aug 3, 2015 14:19:42 GMT -8
No New Posts Were You Abused or Neglected as a Child?

Do you have wounds left over from childhood?

101 598 Time and Punctuality
by abetterlife
Jul 6, 2015 17:54:50 GMT -8
No New Posts Boundaries

Information about Boundaries for Love Addicts

75 734 Parent Boundaries
by leahb
Jun 30, 2015 15:43:09 GMT -8
No New Posts Personality Disorders

Disorders Beyond Your Typical Neurosis.

20 269 My experience of Borderline Personality Disorder
by vivi
Aug 1, 2015 2:28:12 GMT -8
No New Posts Spirituality

Share your experiences with spirituality.

135 697 First Person Spiritual Experience
by loveellen
Jul 31, 2015 21:00:22 GMT -8
No New Posts Successful Relationships In Recovery

Helpful Hints about Relationships in Recovery

75 827 Crushes
by LovelyJune
Aug 3, 2015 2:30:45 GMT -8
No New Posts Other Addictions and the Addictive Personality

Other Addictions and the Addictive Personality

21 197 Nicotine Addiction
by abetterlife
Jun 8, 2015 5:28:39 GMT -8
No New Posts Call for Success Stories - 1 Viewing

Submit your recovery story.

42 408 Relationship Status: In a New Kind of Relationship
by Susan Peabody
Jul 4, 2015 12:01:18 GMT -8
No New Posts Pearls of Wisdom

Insights from LA Old timers.

82 687 Knowing what triggers you
by loveellen
Jun 21, 2015 21:27:57 GMT -8
No New Posts Reflections on Recovery from Susan

Recovery threads

103 854 God's Love
by abetterlife
Jul 27, 2015 8:42:04 GMT -8
No New Posts Recovery Lovely June Style

Posts about recovery from Lovely June

74 820 Stop Focusing on the Relationship
by loveellen
Jul 29, 2015 21:11:47 GMT -8
No New Posts Message Board Basic Text

Addiction to Love by Susan Peabody

8 21 LAA Basic Text: Addiction to Love
by midnightcry
May 10, 2015 8:01:36 GMT -8
No New Posts Books & Articles for Men

About men but women may view and post.

11 45 "Why That Guy Who’s So Into You Suddenly Goes MIA"
by midnightcry
Mar 22, 2015 5:19:17 GMT -8
No New Posts Work the 12 Steps - 2 Viewing

The 12 steps builds self-esteem.

Sub-boards: 12 Steps of Recovery: Read Me First, Step Sponsorship, Step 1, Step 2, Step 3, Step 4, Step 5, Step 6, Step 7, Step 8, Step 9, Step 10, Step 11, Step 12

181 2,907 The Steps for Love Addicts
by safiya
Jul 31, 2015 23:36:30 GMT -8
No New Posts Daily Reflections - 1 Viewing

Daily Reflections from Susan Peabody, Melodie Beattie, Robin Norwood, Lovely June

Sub-boards: Daily Reflections from Robin Norwood, Daily Reflections from Melodie Beattie, Daily Reflections from Susan Peabody, Daily Reflections from LovelyJune

1,037 2,236 The NEW you and the old him...
by leahb
Jun 19, 2015 20:18:50 GMT -8
No New Posts Donations

Please . . . We need money to keep the board going.

2 15 Donations to keep the board going.
by abetterlife
May 26, 2015 11:25:37 GMT -8
No New Posts Personal Journals

Keep your one-thread personal journal here

149 4,749 Journey to Better Life :-)
by abetterlife
Aug 3, 2015 7:48:30 GMT -8
No New Posts Careers, Work & Creativity in Recovery

What are you up to when you are not on the board?

41 439 Films
by moonlitvein
Jul 27, 2015 10:03:56 GMT -8
No New Posts Board of Directors

The people in charge . . .

3 11 Feedback and Follow-Up
by moonlitvein
Feb 19, 2015 10:35:53 GMT -8
No New Posts Link to the LAA Website

Click here to get to the LAA website.

3 4 Will this board every go back to using the LAA Traditions?
by midnightcry
Apr 28, 2015 15:19:30 GMT -8
No New Posts Alternative Steps presented by Susan Peabody

For those who have a problem with the original 12 Steps.

3 11 Alternative Steps
by Susan Peabody
Jun 4, 2015 10:41:00 GMT -8

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