Post by austinpisces on Apr 17, 2012 7:22:00 GMT -8
I have barely any childhood memories. I don't think anything truly traumatic happened, I just can't remember much about being a kid at all. Which has me wondering how I will be able to try and track down what happened to my IC that caused the love addiction in me. Does anyone have a similar experience or some good pointers for me?
Post by Jacarandagirl on Apr 18, 2012 5:54:29 GMT -8
You don't really absolutely NEED to get in contact with your IC (took me a little while to work out what that was , I don't think anyway. It's great if it happens, but not necessary if you don't have the memories. Like jphcbpa says, you may have blocked them out. So if they're meant to come back, you'll know. They'll pop back in. If not, it's not required! Many other ways to work on recovery.
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