Post by Blue_eyes33 on Sept 22, 2014 11:29:41 GMT -8
I have never been a jealous person.. Jealousy is one thing I've never suffered from. I feel it now. I can't stand the thought of my "POA" (still trying to get used to this term) being with someone else. At the same time I want him to be happy since him and I can't be together.. I'm so angry that he would post a picture of a girl on FB that he is interested in. Especially after what happened between us last week.. Why would he hurt me like that? I can't believe how jacked up my emotions are over this..
Last Edit: Sept 22, 2014 11:44:06 GMT -8 by Blue_eyes33
Unfortunatley, he's not thinking about you or hurting you. He's just showboating his "new" relationship to his relationship circle.
One thing: don't allow yourself to check out his social media sites. This is HARD to hear and HARD to do. FB is like crack to people undergoing a breakup. All you need is one "hit" of their page, and you are pushed back into a pain zone.
Sexless is right. He's not thinking about you at all. That is quite telling of his character. Focus on that. Is that a value you share with this person? No. You have higher standards. When that becomes evident to you, it often makes it a little easier to let go. You can say to yourself, "I deserve and will only be with someone who is kinder and not so callous."
It is with this kind of self-talk that we are able to heal and move on.