Hey! I am a total failure in my married life. Our sexual relationship is on the rocks. My husband says that my boobs are really very small. My friend suggested a breast enlargement surgery in Breast and Tummy tuck centre, Windsor. I spoke to my husband regarding this and he is happy about this. But I am really worried. I have never been under the knife. I tried many home remedies to improve the breast volume but of no use. I am still confused whether to go under the knife. I feel like committing suicide!
That's a big thing to go under this surgery. What's next ? First breast then... You are more then that. You husband saw what he married , isn't ? Can you ask him to operate his private parts ... What would be his reaction ? .. I hope you find the solution that haven't got anything to do with such operations . Hugs ! X
I am sorry to hear that. That really got into my nerves. For me, that is a form of abuse too -- forcing his way against your will (directly or indirectly).
I second what ~w~ said. In addition, a wife is not responsible for her husband's superficial, shallow, sexist perspective. That's what it is. Honoring his selfish demand is dishonoring yourself. This kind of operation can go wrong and put you in danger. So whom you would rather choose? Ugh. Let him cut his chest not yours. Don't care about what he says and sees in you, your sex life is not as important as your safety. And sex is not about having a big breast. Take care.
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