I'm scared because none of my POAs have tried to contact me(I know this is a good thing) and I'm feeling really unloved. I want someone to love me. I want someone to text me right now and say hey I miss you! Uhh I'm really trying to fight the urge not to go try to validate my feelings with people. This is tough. I'm on week three of NC. I almost started with another guy and he hasn't texted me either but I don't blame him because I kept running off on him. I'm just sad I know in the long term it will be better and I'll be happy but I'm just afraid right now.
This is not a "good thing." He is a seductive withholder and will leave you once he gets you back. He does not to let you go. This dance will go on until you finally read and follow the no contact rules. I know you want love but you have to wait for the right man. I waited until I was 60. Sometimes it can take awhile. But I believe I was the exception so I could teach. But finally Frank Samuels came along and we are happily married now. Susan