Counter Transference Oct 18, 2017 18:01:53 GMT -8
Post by Susannah on Oct 18, 2017 18:01:53 GMT -8
Susan, I have read around these forums. I have read the comments that have been posted in the last 48 hours. I see that leaders on this board and some of the people here are struggling with same-sex attraction in a love addict paradigm. You will have to correct me if I have misread this. I seem to understand that you, Susan, were in a same-sex relationship as well.
I posted this thread before I read around. This is going to get in the way of my obtaining help here. My experience of finding and logging in and posting was a pretty desperate affair to begin with and I felt my hope was dashed to find that Berkeley and California are liberal as ever. I've been a helper in some situations where the person receiving help derails the relationship in order to maintain pathology.
This is why the members of this board shy away from Christianity. Your homophobia is inappropriate here. This is why I left the church years ago. Christ asks us to love our neighbor and yet you judge same-sex relationships. This is inappropriate on this board. Please do not share your prejudices anymore. We are happy to help you but this IS NOT a Christian board. It is self-heop board which embraces people from all walks of life. I love Jesus and he asked me to love others. This includes homosexuals and everyone else with alternative life styles. Why did you think this was a place just for Christians? Perhaps I should take down the Christian sub-board. You have really upset me and I needed to vent.
You say leaders and yet we have none. I am an elder member. There is no administrator either. I just like to post a lot because I enjoy it. This is a twelve step program for love addicts.