My past relationships didn’t last because they said I’m uninteresting to be with. Most of my ex-girlfriends told me I am indeed boring and loving me is suffocating. I don’t understand why. Maybe because I’m really busy at work? But I make time for them always. I am sweet. I never failed to make them feel loved and wanted. I really don’t know what makes me a boring boyfriend. If choosing to have a private relationship is boring, then I guess I am. I’m not just fond of boasting my relationship over social media. If that is what they mean, then I am guilty.
Have you tried asking them what made them say you are boring them? When you are in a relationship, do you have predictable routine day in and day out? Do you do anything together that you both enjoy doing? And do you try to do some new things with her? What emotions(s) or mood(s) do you show when you are together? How often you meet, date? I think better sort it out and make a plan based on what you both like to do. As for suffocation, if you are doing too much of the same thing over and over again, it could lead her to feeling suffocated. If after sorting it out and still it does not work, it might be you are not compatible? But it give time.
It’s good that at least now you know what they felt about you and willing to work on it.