Post by victoria1008 on May 6, 2019 16:41:40 GMT -8
I am struggling today and wanted to post. I was supposed to be in a wedding for a friend who I met via my ex POA. My ex is also in the wedding as my friends fiance is his best friend. I have been dreading it. I regretfully reached out to my ex POA (who I lived with for two years and was on and off with for 5) regarding thr wedding. It was the first contact I had with him in 7 months. It was the most disgusting interaction I've had. I was talked to like I was scum, as if I had absolutley never been anything to him. He even made a joke about how unless the conversation was promiscuous we could speak in the morning. After this I made the decision to remove myself from the wedding party. The friend of mine basically said I was a horrible disgusting person for doing this and blocked me on everything. So I am feeling a bit down today and would appreciate anyone's feedback
Don't beat yourself up for "breaking" NC. It happens to US ALL. If that's the way your Xfriend and XPoA treated you - they did you a favor by blocking you. I know it doesn't feel like a favor right now - it hurts & it sux. [although the xfriend was probably ticked you had to remove yourself from the wedding].
Your xPoA showed you BY HIS ACTIONS what a jerk he is. You're now free of him and his yukky tactics. He can be promiscuous with himself now all he wants.