Hi guys. I am Ronil Gandhi. I am 26. Gave myself up completely to this woman.. changed my religion for her.. bore her insensitive behavior.. she dumped me after 3 months..now have to deal with common friends in church.. do I even go to church? All my life I have been going from 1 girl to another.. sometimes keeping a back up with the fear of being left by my then current girlfriend.. I am glad I joined this forum. Namaste!
Wow, you took an extreme step for a GF (now xGF). Changing religion is a big thing, IMO. Are you still attending the same place of worship as her? Or are you referring to your prior place of worship?
My one piece of advice to you, just off the cuff: be on your own for a while. Jumping from person to person causes more issues than staying in one place. Know who you are and why you are acting as you do. Is it an attachment situation? What sort of relationship did you have to caregivers/parents when you were growing up? What inside need do YOU have that you chase from GF to GF? Nobody on the planet of 8 billion souls can fulfill our inside needs except for YOU. [this is my usual response to folks in your situation - BTDT and changed my perspective on myself]