Post by brokenchinadoll on Oct 22, 2010 11:39:17 GMT -8
It's been 2 years since I have been on this board. There are so many new stories. I just can't believe how many people are held captive in their own lives by this addiction.
For all of you who are going through the worst time of your life, IT DOES GET BETTER! I PROMISE YOU, there is light at the end of the tunnel, HANG IN THERE!
It's hard for me to even imagine I was that person 2 years ago. It seems like a life time ago.
When I FINALLY decided to have ABSOLUTELY NO CONTACT with my POV and I stuck with it, every day, all day.....my life started changing. I started changing. Things began to look clearer. Life began to have a purpose again.
I took some time off for myself. And then I met a man, I fell completely in love for all the right reasons and we were married in April this year. Our relationship is so different than anything I have ever experienced. I am happier than I have ever been in my life.
As hard as it may be, and I know believe me I've been there, the ONLY way you will ever find peace is to make the decision to have no contact and stick with it NO MATTER WHAT!!!!!!!!