I am lost? I have been with my husband off and on for six years. I have taken care of him for more than half of it. I fix his life, and he finds someone new. I can't seem to move on, so is my marriage even real? He has had three girlfriends, full blown relationships. I am hurt, but understand. My behavior is scary to say the very least. I don't know what happens, this is only my third relationship in my whole life. I just don't do well.
Post by Jacarandagirl on Aug 25, 2012 13:39:13 GMT -8
READ AS MUCH AS YOU CAN HERE. Go to the home page and read in all the sections that seem to relate to you. If you decide you want to recover, you have found an asset here in this board that could support your whole new journey. If not, at least you know you're not alone now!
"You deserve better than something that may be comfortable for you but you already know doesn't work and that you'll be complaining about soon enough and hoping that something or someone else will do what you can't even do for yourself. You deserve better - you deserve change".
Excerpt from www.baggagereclaim.com
I agree with Jgirl. Keep reading! It sounds a little mundane, but you need to learn about the tools you have to make any kind of successful change. The reason you feel so stuck and so confused is because you do not know what tools you have or how to use them. Reading will give you those tools!