Post by Susan Peabody on Jun 19, 2018 14:28:33 GMT -8
There are times when no contact is impossible. If you have financial ties, share a business, work together, or have children it is really difficult. Sometimes no contact just does not work because you have unfinished business.
It is important for all of on this board to refrain from judging those who choose LC. The shock of NC can be just to much for some. Often people need to wean themselves for the sake of their sanity. Other times, with a child, LC with healthy boundaries is the norm. Withdrawal is harder for some than others. Codependents, especially, may opt for LC because their is a family and/or extended family involved.
LC involves healthy boundaries. Do not fool yourself into believing going back into your codependency or love addiction is just LC. Let's use this thread to expand on this idea of LC. What do you think is healthy if you have chosen LC.
NC is not a rule. LAA has never made it official. The idea began with one of our early members who was a love addict and able to end all contact without having to give up her job or business or child.