It is hard to find sponsors these days. As I have mentioned before, codependent love addicts are burned out from taking care of their PoA. Others started out in a treatment program where they graduated and moved on. There was no 12th step about working with others.
Welcome to the board. I hope someone volunteers to help you. Meanwhile lest the whole board sponsor you.
Hello! Yes, I know about the steps. I am now taking steps in anonymous alcoholics, several years ago I went through the steps of the program for adult children of alcoholics. But, unfortunately, my situation is repeated again and again, I constantly fall in love with married men, I feel powerless to cope with this problem. Therefore, I think I need the steps exactly LAA.
MM (Married Men) are situationally and emotionally unavailable, as you know. Extra Marital Affairs (EMAs) are extremely exciting and then end badly with pain. They are an addiction all their own.
I wish I could help you with this, but unfortunately, I am not qualified to guide another person on step work.
Have you begun the LAA Steps on your own? I always tell people who begin the Steps there is NO RUSH and to take your time doing them. I would even suggest trying to do it on the board, if you are comfortable with that.
Welcome to the board. Keep reading and reach out to us. There are many who can help you here.
Post by anonymous2016 on Feb 8, 2020 21:20:04 GMT -8
Please help me find a sponsor! I have been to a LAA support group in Costa Mesa, California, but I am having a hard time finding a sponsor. I am in therapy and that’s how I found out about love addiction. I am also bipolar. Please help me! I ruined my life because of this. Left my husband because of the love of my life and I have lost everything.